This postcard i found on this week's Post Secret is horrifying, yes. Honestly, the lady sounds like a dumbass.  In order to get her point across she needed to marginalize those who aren't white, educated and upper middle class.  Is it expected from us?

I still have an enormous amount of sympathy for her, no one should ever feel stuck in a situation like that.  Her passive classism and racism isn't very charming, but we should still wish her the best.  Yes? yes.